Going into this weekend I knew there would be a foster dog at our house. After this weekend, turns out that was pretty much the only that turned out to be true.
Saturday night I met Almost Home Rescue at a rest stop in Southern Maine to pick up Anna. (Maine has some strict rules about bringing in dogs from rescue transports, so it used to be that as long as they were in New Hampshire adopters could pick up their pups right off the transport truck. New Hampshire has since changed their importation rules, so now all dogs coming up from the south require a quarantine period, or a foster hold. That’s what Munchkin was, and that’s what we were doing for Anna because she had a family waiting for her.) As Anna came off the truck she had some serious energy. I expected to see a 35 pound petite pittie, with medium energy, and what I got was a 50 pound solid girl bouncing off the walls. I could barely hold on to her as she literally did a three foot vertical jump, twisting and pulling on the leash. She was so happy to be with a person; giving me kisses like it was her job. I could tell that she was a very sweet girl and the three days in the truck was a bit much for her energy level.
During the 20 minute drive home, I was thinking how much Nola is not going to like Anna’s crazy high energy, pushy personality. We really only agreed to take another female pit because it was for two days. We could keep them separate for two days, and not worry about stressing either of them out for such a short time. We did take them for a walk together when I got home, being careful not to really let them meet, just be aware the other one exists. Then, it was downstairs to the finished basement for Anna and I. We played, trying to get out some of that energy, until she conked out asleep. I slept with her on the couch, snuggling and snoring like a true pittie.
Almost Home Rescue was having a reunion at a local park the next day, so I took Nola and the Mr. stayed home with Anna. Well, this is where the unexpected happened. Because all the AHR volunteers would be there, I knew I could talk to the President of the group and Anna’s adoption coordinator about some health concerns I had with Anna. Her spay incision looked a little infected and she had what looked like tapeworms. In our conversation, it came to light that the people who were adopting Anna were not 100% committed and that her adoption was contingent on a meet and great. Say what?! And then as I asked more about the people, I found out they have three young kids under six and that they were still under the impression that Anna was a 30 pound medium energy dog. Apparently there was a serious miscommunication going on here and it looked like out two day hold had the potential to turn into a long term foster. It was at this point that I lost it.
Through the tears I told the rescue coordinator and president all my concerns, the first being we did not expect to have a permanent foster and were not really prepared to keep her long term because of Nola’s low tolerance for females. The second being that this 50 pound ball of muscle has no house manners and is probably not a great fit for someone with three small children. And the third, and most upsetting, was my concern for poor Anna. What if I had shown up to meet these people thinking I was giving them their dog? I would have been mortified and I’m sure Anna would have been confused. Where would she go if we couldn’t keep her? They apologized for the misunderstanding and assured me that if it doesn’t work fostering her then they could find her somewhere else to go.
I called the Mr. and cried to him about the situation. We both decided that we were in this for the long haul. We had both already fallen in love with Anna’s sweet, loving personality. We have some work to do with introducing her and Nola, but we couldn’t bear the thought of uprooting this girl again and bringing her to another foster home.
So, the potential adopters are coming to meet her tonight. I’m not sure how it is going to go, but either way she is staying with us for a few more days. The people are going to meet her and let us know what they think. It turns out they were as unprepared to take her as we were. Obviously, I want her to go somewhere where she is the right fit and if that if it’s not with them, the Mr. and I are committed to helping this love bug find someplace that is.
Oh Danielle, she is so lucky to have you guys! Let me know how it goes tonight!!
Sounds like a stressful situation. She sure is cute, and I’ll be thinking of you guys with my fingers crossed that tonight goes well! Good luck!
I hope everything goes well tonight, my fingers are crossed!
Whoa, that’s crazy!! You’re so amazing for sticking with her, hang in there – make sure you ASK FOR HELP if you need it, any rescue organization worth their salt will provide you with training assistance. That goes for intorducing Nola and Anna and helping their interaction go smoothly. Good luck!
Danielle, you have such a good heart. Good Luck with Anna. If all else fails we can always get Anna and Laynie together so they can burn off each others energy 🙂
Bets of luck with the meet up tonight! Anna is so lucky that you are wiling to keep her as long as it takes to find a forever home! I hope that Anna and Nola’s meeting also goes well. Keep us posted!!
Yikes! What a frustrating situation. What I do know is that Anna is lucky to have found a foster family in you and the Mr! Make sure to let your rescue group know what you need – training help, medical stuff, etc. Can’t wait to hear more about beautiful Anna!
That sounds like an awful situation for you to be in but ditto what everyone else has said – Anna is lucky to have landed on your doorstep!
Anna really lucked out. Incredibly selfless of you, your husband and Nola. After all she’s been through, uprooting her again could have done a real job on her nerves and confidence. Keep us posted!!!!
I am so behind on my blogs!!! Ok, first off, I love that you slept with her on the couch! Sigh. Then I love that you broke down (not really) but I appreciate the flood of emotion that you must have felt and that you shared how it manifested (and trust us, we relate!!!). Lastly, you are so awesome. Looking forward to reading the next posted which is already posted since I’m so behind!!
Thanks Tracy, we’re just trying to do what’s best for Anna! 🙂 And P.S. you’re awesome too.
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